Happy Birthday, Spanky!
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Zexiv remembers that when Spanky was born he (Zexiv) was always out of the house, perhaps trying to make the most of his last few months of bachelorhood. Although he knew that his middle sister was due to give birth any day he remembers wondering where everyone in the family was one day, and getting the shock of his life when he was called to the phone in the morning by one of the helpers and heard middle sister asking in an amused tone, "Did you know I just gave birth?"
It was exciting to be an uncle for the first time. Zexiv has fond memories dating back to when Spanky was just a baby, for instance:
1. The morning of Zexiv's wedding, Zexiv's mother (Oma to Spanky) combing Spanky's fine baby's hair and speaking for Spanky, "Uncle Jack, you want me to look good for your wedding, right?"
2. Zexiv dropping by the house one afternoon (he and Puff rented an apartment after they got married) and finding Spanky sitting quietly and patiently (and with very good posture) on the bottom step of the wooden staircase all by himself, looking straight ahead, and apparently lost in deep thought. Zexiv wasn't quite sure at that time if Spanky could recognize him yet.
3. The whole family going out for lunch one day, spotting Zexiv walking near his former office, and calling out for Zexiv to join them. Spanky was looking out the window of the car at Zexiv with a big smile on his face (which made Zexiv realize happily that his little nephew did know who he was!).
4. Zexiv teaching Spanky how to pour a can of coke for his uncle, which Spanky quickly learned to do and would repeat whenever he saw his uncle with a can of coke.
And many more instances.
Spanky also came at the right time, about a year or so before Zexiv's father underwent knee replacement surgery on both legs. The family seems to agree that Spanky's many visits to see Grumpa in the hospital were really the best medicine.
After Spanky was born, a nephew and 2 nieces followed one after another, and the family dinner was never the same again. Of course, Zexiv and Puff are fond of all of them, and they are all unique and likeable in their own special ways. Cheers though to the leader of the pack!
Happy birthday, Spanky, from your pals in Vancouver! We wish we could be with you to celebrate your special day.
All the best,
Uncle Jack (Zexiv), Tita Puff, and Comrade Stingray :)


